Why Should I Even Bother with a Vibrator?
Let’s get one thing straight: vibrators are not just about pleasure—they’re about health, confidence, and connection. Especially in midlife, when hormonal changes and shifting sexual experiences are common, a vibrator can be a smart, supportive tool.
Vibrators & Health: What the Research Shows
Vibrators can support pelvic floor health, boost sexual function, and are even tied to improved emotional well-being and quality of life. In fact, in a systematic literature review published in Sexual Medicine Reviews, Dr. Dubinskaya and colleagues suggest it may time for doctors to start prescribing vibrators for women's health including pelvic floor function.
They’ve been shown to improve desire, arousal, and orgasm—especially in partnered sexual activity—making them not just tools for pleasure, but for intimacy and connection.
And here's the truth: you don’t need any reason beyond valuing your sexual health to explore vibrator use. It’s a choice that can empower and support your wellness on many levels.
The “Good Girls Don’t” Myth
Let’s bust this one. A nationally representative U.S. survey found that 52.5% of women have used a vibrator. In fact, women who use vibrators are more likely to attend gynecological exams and perform self-exams—a sign that sexual health awareness drives overall health engagement.
Vibrator use was significantly associated with improvements in:
Sexual, pelvic, and mental health are deeply interconnected—supporting one area helps support the others.
Vibrator Use & Sexual Function: Real Results
One pilot study instructed participants (ages 19–80, with a mean age of 54.7) to use a vibrator 2–3 times per week for 5–10 minutes on the external genitals. After three months, women saw significant improvements in:
While the study didn’t show significant improvements in urinary or fecal incontinence or prolapse symptoms, the mental and sexual health gains alone were meaningful.
Interestingly, women who were sexually active with partners showed greater improvements in desire, arousal, and orgasm compared to women engaging in solo activity alone—though both groups saw benefits. If you are struggling with sexual function in your relationship-a vibrator may help!
Selecting a Vibrator: What You Need to Know
Prices range widely—from $15 to $250+, depending on materials, features, and brand.
Choosing a vibrator is like choosing your favorite shade of lipstick—it’s personal. But here’s a quick guide to help:
Common Types
Breaking Down Price Points & Features
| Feature | Basic: $15-$40 | Mid-Range: $40-$100 | High-End: $100-$250+ |
| Material | Hard plastic, basic silicone | Higher-quality, body-safe silicone | Premium (medical grade silicone) |
| Power | Battery-powered | Rechargeable | Rechargeable |
| Tech & Features | Few speeds/settings | Multiple speed settings (stimulating patterns), waterproof | App control (remote with phone), warming, suction, dual zones |
| Brand Examples | Dame, iroha, We-Vibe, Lelo | Lelo, Womanizer, Crave |
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The PAUZ Pick
At PAUZ Health, we carry Dame vibrators in our curated shop. Why Dame?
Explore your body. Support your health. And stop pretending this is just about pleasure.
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